Why Being Liked is Overrated

If you are on the self-healing and spiritual awakening path you will have to let go of the need to be liked. I want you to know that other people not liking you is not the worst thing, in fact, it can be a sign of some awesome growth and progress.

Why People Vibrate Out of Your World

As you heal, you may find that you start to vibrate at a different frequency, one that no longer aligns with certain individuals in your life. And that’s okay.

Your healing is for your soul’s evolution, not for the approval or validation of others. And while I know my people’s pleasers are cringing at the sound of this, you have to be willing to fully own your path to embody true bliss.

As you shift and evolve, you may get push back from others. This is because your changes act as a mirror, reflecting back unaddressed wounds and insecurities in those around you. You may even become a trigger to them.

But it is so important in these moments to not take it personally, and simultaneously remember to have compassion for them in those moments.

People tend to judge what they think they cannot become themselves.

Ouch, but when you really think about it, how true is this? In these moments of comparison – the ego will judge others to make itself feel better. However this is just a reaction and as you probably know, these are the first to go on the healing path. Our reactions show us the spaces we still need to heal.

If you are finding yourself in some hard times when it comes to self-love, this information here can help you.

Trust the Universe

Not everyone gets to be with this new, upgraded, healed and evolved version of you and that’s ok.

Trust that those who are meant to be a part of your journey, will align with your higher vibration.

Your commitment to self-love and growth will ultimately lead you to a place of peace and authenticity. Because at the end of the day, you are all you got!

If you need support on this self-love path…

We have a free spiritual meditation portal where I will take you on a journey into authentic spiritual love, connect with Divine energy and activate your self-loving relationship!

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So just remember, as you heal, you may find that you start to vibrate at a new frequency, and this alone can vibrate people right out of your life. This is because your past frequency was the one that was in alignment with them, not this one. And that’s okay.

I invite you to stay committed to loving yourself no matter what changes your healing brings, getting your own back and moving with self-love are the greatest tools to support you through these times.

By Sophie Frabotta, M.A.
Author,Certified Spiritual Life Coach, Healer

I am a heart-centered, soul leader who is so honored to be doing this work. With over 10,000 hours of 1-1 experience, a leader in the field of Spiritual Life Coaching, and a Globally recognized Spiritual Life Coach Certification – I teach students the depth of real transformation in a way that most have never seen. Having transformed my own body, mind and spirit, I am honored to take you into your inner chamber, show you how to lift out of karmic soul wounds and stabilize your higher vibration in 5D.

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